Is an au pair the right choice for us?
Can an au pair look after a child with a disability who is over 18?
Short answer
No. Under the au pair programme, an au pair may only care for children under 18 years of age. This applies to children with and without a disability.
Last updated: 26.08.2026
Why the age in years counts
What matters here is the actual age in years, not the child's developmental stage.
Even if a young adult with a disability has, for example, the developmental stage of a four-year-old and continues to need extensive support in everyday life, care can no longer take place within an au pair arrangement once they turn 18.
This is not a rule set by our agency but part of the legal framework of the au pair programme. An exception due to a disability or a lower developmental stage is therefore unfortunately not possible.