Melanie Matl sits at a bright wooden table, writing in a notebook.

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Melanie Matl aus Füssen ist Mutter einer Tochter mit Behinderung und kämpft für mehr Inklusion

Kreisbote (Füssen), 20 December 2025 · by Marion Bässler

Summary

Why a mother from Füssen founded an agency of her own

In its Füssen local section, the Kreisbote portrays Melanie Matl, a mother of three children, one of whom has a disability. Her aim, she says, is for everyone to notice that every child is unique and carries particular abilities — with children with a disability, you simply have to look more closely to see them. (Translated)

The article tells of this family's everyday life: in the first school year, the nearest suitable Förderschule (special school) was in Kempten or Kaufbeuren. Getting up shortly after five, the school bus at 6.20 am, three hours of travelling a day, home again at five in the afternoon. From year two the child attended the mainstream primary school with a school companion. It tells of invitations that stopped after nursery, and of the family making use of the right to inclusive education so that their daughter could attend the mainstream primary school with a Schulbegleiterin — a school companion who supports a child through the school day. „Everyone talks about inclusion, but the reality looks quite different,“ Matl is quoted as saying. She praises the schools expressly, but speaks plainly about the exclusion — „we do not want to complain, but the exclusion is heart-rending“ — and points to Italy, where children with a disability attend mainstream primary schools. (Translated)

The second part of the article describes what she made of it: the picture book „Die Reise der besonderen Sterne“ with an accompanying workbook that lets schools explore inclusion from year two onwards — and, in 2024, the founding of her agency. The Kreisbote also reports that Matl herself was turned down by au pair agencies because they do not place with families raising a child with a disability.

On the agency's work the article records this: the au pairs bring experience of disability from their own families, complete a work placement in their home country and are trained through video calls. After the au pair year, Matl helps them look for a training place. „The au pairs have experience, passion and, most importantly of all, their heart in the right place,“ she says. (Translated)

The piece matters here because it describes the starting point of our work. How we place today, and how the au pairs are prepared, is set out under our services (in German); what a family needs to bring is described under becoming a host family (in German). If you would rather talk than read, you can arrange a free introductory call (in German).

Key points

What the article reports

  • Melanie Matl from Füssen is a mother of three children, one of whom has a disability.
  • For one school year the day began shortly after five; the journey there and back added up to three hours of bus travel a day.
  • In year two the family made use of the right to inclusive education — mainstream primary school with a Schulbegleiterin.
  • Matl herself was turned down by au pair agencies because they do not place with families raising a child with a disability.
  • In 2024 she founded Besondere Sterne; the au pairs bring experience of people with disabilities and are prepared in the au pair academy.
  • With the picture book „Die Reise der besonderen Sterne“ and a workbook for schools, Matl advocates for inclusion beyond her agency as well.

Published by Kreisbote (Füssen) on 20 December 2025.

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Further publications

  1. „Ich kann euch Melanie Matl und ihre Agentur wärmstens empfehlen“The Cologne family blog „Willkommen bei den Wües“ warmly recommends Melanie Matl and her agency on Instagram.1 November 2025Instagram: willkommen_bei_den_wuesSocial media (in German)
  2. „Melanie Matl ist nicht nur Kinderbuchautorin“The Cologne association Süße Zitronen e.V. presents Melanie Matl's children's book on Instagram — and mentions her agency.26 June 2024Instagram: suessezitronen.e.vSocial media (in German)
  3. SFZ im Kreis Heinsberg stellt die Agentur vorA self-help and volunteer centre in the Heinsberg district presents the agency on its Facebook channel and links to our website.19 May 2026Facebook: SFZ Selbsthilfe- & Freiwilligen-Zentrum im Kreis HeinsbergMention (in German)
  4. Aupair für Mädchen mit BehinderungA regional newspaper report on a family in Schorndorf whose second au pair from India supports their daughter, who has a disability.2 June 2026Schorndorfer NachrichtenPress (in German)
  5. „Unterstützung finden: Betreuungsangebote und deren Finanzierung für Familien mit Kindern mit Behinderung“A free online event by the Cologne association Süße Zitronen e.V. on care and funding options — with a short guest contribution by Melanie Matl.1 June 2026Süße Zitronen e.V., KölnProfessional event (in German)
  6. „Ich bin mutiger geworden“Part two of a newspaper series about an au pair from India, in interview with a host family in Plankstadt with three children.3 January 2026Lokalteil Plankstadt/EppelheimPress (in German)
  7. Au-pairs für Familien mit einem Kind mit BehinderungAn online information event held by the Schleswig-Holstein state association for people with physical and multiple disabilities, on au pairs in families with a child with a disability.22 January 2025Landesverband für körper- und mehrfachbehinderte Menschen Schleswig-Holstein e. V., KielProfessional event (in German)
  8. Folge 176 – Mit Melanie Matl über Inklusion & Au PairA podcast conversation with Melanie Matl about inclusion and about placing au pairs with families of children with disabilities.23 November 2024IN&OUTSIDE EO (Podcast)Interview (in German)
  9. Unsere Reise zur InklusionA guest article written by Melanie Matl herself — her own journey from her family's story and her children's book to founding the agency.28 August 2024Momo – Mobilität, Motion & BarrierefreiGuest article (in German)
  10. Au-Pair für Familien mit einem Kind mit Behinderung – wie geht das?Announcement of a talk for the Trisomie 21 Frankfurt association about au pairs for families with a child with a disability.13 June 202421malDREI – Initiative Trisomie 21 Frankfurt e. V.Professional event (in German)
  11. „Manchmal müssen wir wie Löwen kämpfen“The family questionnaire of the Lebenshilfe Zeitung: Melanie Matl on paperwork, participation and the origin of the agency.June 2024Lebenshilfe Zeitung, Ausgabe 2/2024, Seite 3Press (in German)
  12. Integrativer Spielplatz für alle Kinder in Füssen gefordertA regional newspaper report on the initiative by Melanie and Mark Matl for an inclusive playground in Füssen.19 October 2023Allgäuer ZeitungPress (in German)
  13. „Besondere Sterne“ im AWO-Familienstützpunkt in Füssen: Familien mit Behinderten treffen sichA report on the first meeting of the parent group founded by Melanie Matl at the AWO family support centre — the „Besondere Sterne“ in the title is this group, not the agency.19 January 2023Allgäuer ZeitungPress (in German)
  14. Williams-Beuren-Syndrom: Fernsehbeitrag bringt Mütter zusammenHow a television report brought together two mothers of children with Williams-Beuren syndrome.29 December 2021Allgäuer Zeitung, Kempten editionPress (in German)
  15. Begleitmaterial zum Stück „SIMPEL“ empfiehlt das KinderbuchThe Theater in Kempten recommends Melanie Matl's children's book in its introductory material for the play „SIMPEL“.May 2025Theater in KemptenMention (in German)
  16. Für weniger Ausgrenzung und BerührungsängsteA television report on Melanie Matl's children's book about inclusion. The video version is no longer publicly available.11 October 2021Allgäu TVPress (in German)
  17. Wenn Dazugehören ein Traum istA report on Melanie Matl's daughter and on how her children's book came about.15 September 2021Allgäuer ZeitungPress (in German)
  18. Au-Pair im AlltagA family's own account of their path to an au pair for their child with a disability — from the search through to the decision.no date givenFiNiFuchs — Kinderhilfsmittel im AlltagsCheck, section „familienleben inklusiv“Experience report (in German)
  19. Au pair Erfahrungen: Unser Jahr mit JamieA family blog's account of an au pair year — including how the family found their next au pair through Besondere Sterne.no date givenWillkommen bei den Wües (family blog)Experience report (in German)
  20. Mutige Mutter und couragierte KämpferinA magazine piece about Melanie Matl, her daughter and her children's book.no date given„von hier“, customer magazine of Feneberg, issue 39, pages 36–37Press (in German)
  21. Menschen von hier und heute: Melanie MatlA portrait of Melanie Matl and her children's book, published in a regional utility's customer magazine.no date given„heimatstark“, customer magazine of Allgäuer Kraftwerke, issue 01/2023, page 5Press (in German)
  22. Einen Stein ins Rollen gebrachtA report on Melanie Matl's campaign for the first inclusive playground in the region.no date givenAllgäuer Zeitung, Ausgabe FüssenPress (in German)
  23. Jeder ist einzigartigA review of Melanie Matl's children's book — a plea for warmth towards children who are different.no date givenAllgäuer ZeitungPress (in German)